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Deep questions to ask yourself only work if you answer them slowly. Pull one card, write for ten minutes, and stop. These are ordered so you can start gently and go further when you have the stomach for it.

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Check-In · 20 questions to ask yourself

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

Self-Reflection

What went well this week that I haven't acknowledged?

Check-In · 01
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What am I looking forward to?

Check-In · 02
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What drained me this week, and was it necessary?

Check-In · 03
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What did I do today purely because I wanted to?

Check-In · 04
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What has my body been telling me lately?

Check-In · 05
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What's taking up the most space in my head?

Check-In · 06
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When did I last feel genuinely rested?

Check-In · 07
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What's a small change that would improve my week?

Check-In · 08
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Who did I enjoy being around recently?

Check-In · 09
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What am I curious about at the moment?

Check-In · 10
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What did I say yes to that I should have declined?

Check-In · 11
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What part of my routine actually works?

Check-In · 12
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What have I been putting off, and why?

Check-In · 13
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What made me laugh this week?

Check-In · 14
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Where do I feel most like myself?

Check-In · 15
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What am I grateful for that I take for granted?

Check-In · 16
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What do I want more of next month?

Check-In · 17
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What's the last thing I learned that stuck?

Check-In · 18
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What am I proud of that nobody praised?

Check-In · 19
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How do I want to feel at the end of this week?

Check-In · 20

Honest · 20 questions to ask yourself

Personal, but not heavy.

Self-Reflection

What am I pretending not to know?

Honest · 01
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What would I do differently if nobody's opinion mattered?

Honest · 02
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What am I tolerating that I shouldn't be?

Honest · 03
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Where am I performing rather than living?

Honest · 04
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What do I want that I keep talking myself out of?

Honest · 05
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What am I afraid would happen if I stopped trying so hard?

Honest · 06
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Whose approval am I still chasing?

Honest · 07
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What do I do when I'm avoiding something?

Honest · 08
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What belief about myself is no longer true?

Honest · 09
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What am I holding onto because letting go feels like failure?

Honest · 10
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What would my life look like if I trusted myself more?

Honest · 11
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What do I need to forgive myself for?

Honest · 12
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Where am I spending energy that gives nothing back?

Honest · 13
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What have I outgrown?

Honest · 14
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What's the story I tell about my life, and is it accurate?

Honest · 15
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What am I waiting for permission to do?

Honest · 16
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What would I regret if this year ended tomorrow?

Honest · 17
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What do I need that I've never asked anyone for?

Honest · 18
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When did I last change my mind about something important?

Honest · 19
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What am I not saying out loud?

Honest · 20

Unflinching · 20 questions to ask yourself

The ones that stay with you.

Self-Reflection

What am I most afraid people would find out about me?

Unflinching · 01
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What have I never grieved properly?

Unflinching · 02
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What do I think I deserve, and where did that idea come from?

Unflinching · 03
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What pattern of mine keeps producing the same pain?

Unflinching · 04
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Who am I when nothing is required of me?

Unflinching · 05
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What did I have to become to survive my childhood, and do I still need it?

Unflinching · 06
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What am I doing with my life that isn't mine?

Unflinching · 07
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What would I have to admit to change everything?

Unflinching · 08
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What do I want my life to have been for?

Unflinching · 09
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Who have I hurt, and have I actually made it right?

Unflinching · 10
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What am I still angry about that I claim to be over?

Unflinching · 11
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What would I do if I knew I had ten years left?

Unflinching · 12
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What part of myself have I abandoned?

Unflinching · 13
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What am I most ashamed of, and is that shame fair?

Unflinching · 14
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What would the person I want to be do next?

Unflinching · 15
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What am I choosing every day without realising it's a choice?

Unflinching · 16
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Where does my life stop feeling real?

Unflinching · 17
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What truth have I been circling for years?

Unflinching · 18
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What do I need to say to someone before it's too late?

Unflinching · 19
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If I stopped being afraid tomorrow, what would I do first?

Unflinching · 20

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