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Deep Questions to Ask Your Friends — Free Cards Online
Long friendships get stuck on logistics — work, plans, gossip. These deep questions to ask your friends are the ones that reopen the conversation you used to have at 2am.
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Easy openers. Safe for anyone.
What do you think we bonded over originally?
What's a memory of us you still bring up?
What's something you've started doing that you like about yourself?
What's the last thing that genuinely excited you?
What do you do now that would shock your teenage self?
What's a friendship you wish you'd kept?
What's something you'd like to do together that we never do?
What's your favourite thing about your life right now?
Who's your first call when everything goes sideways?
What's a place we should go together?
What's a hobby you'd take up with more time?
What's the best decision you've made this year?
What's something small that's been bothering you?
What's changed about you since we met?
What do people come to you for?
What's something you'd like to be known for?
What's the last book, show or song that got under your skin?
What's a version of your life you'd like to try for a year?
What's the next thing you're genuinely excited about?
Deeper · 20 deep questions for friends
Personal, but not heavy.
What do you think I don't know about your life right now?
When was the last time you felt genuinely low?
What's something you've been dealing with alone?
What do you need from your friends that you don't ask for?
What's a friendship that ended badly, and what did it teach you?
What do you think your biggest flaw is?
When do you feel lonely, even around people?
What's a decision you're second-guessing?
What's something you've outgrown but haven't let go of?
What do you think I get wrong about you?
What's a fear you have about the next few years?
When did you last feel proud of yourself?
What's a part of your family life you rarely talk about?
What's something you envy in other people?
What do you wish you were braver about?
What's the hardest thing you've been through since we've known each other?
What do you want your thirties, forties, whatever's next to look like?
What kind of support actually helps you?
What's a thing about you I've never thought to ask?
What do you think you're avoiding?
Deepest · 20 deep questions for friends
The ones that stay with you.
What's the loneliest period of your life been?
What do you carry from your childhood that still shapes you?
What's something you've never forgiven yourself for?
Who has hurt you most, and have you told them?
What do you think people would be surprised to know about you?
What's a version of yourself you're afraid of becoming?
What are you grieving that nobody knows about?
What's the hardest truth you've had to accept?
When did someone last really get you without you explaining?
What do you want that you feel you don't deserve?
What's something you'd want said at your funeral that isn't true yet?
What's the closest you've come to giving up?
What do you need to hear from someone, and from who?
What's a relationship you're staying in out of fear?
What have you lied about for so long it feels true?
What do you want to have healed by the end of this decade?
If you could tell one person one thing with no consequences, who and what?
What do you think your life is for?
What would you change if nobody would be disappointed in you?
What do you hope I'd do if you fell apart?