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Long friendships get stuck on logistics — work, plans, gossip. These deep questions to ask your friends are the ones that reopen the conversation you used to have at 2am.

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Light · 20 deep questions for friends

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

Friends

What's the best thing happening in your life right now?

Light · 01
Friends

What do you think we bonded over originally?

Light · 02
Friends

What's a memory of us you still bring up?

Light · 03
Friends

What's something you've started doing that you like about yourself?

Light · 04
Friends

What's the last thing that genuinely excited you?

Light · 05
Friends

What do you do now that would shock your teenage self?

Light · 06
Friends

What's a friendship you wish you'd kept?

Light · 07
Friends

What's something you'd like to do together that we never do?

Light · 08
Friends

What's your favourite thing about your life right now?

Light · 09
Friends

Who's your first call when everything goes sideways?

Light · 10
Friends

What's a place we should go together?

Light · 11
Friends

What's a hobby you'd take up with more time?

Light · 12
Friends

What's the best decision you've made this year?

Light · 13
Friends

What's something small that's been bothering you?

Light · 14
Friends

What's changed about you since we met?

Light · 15
Friends

What do people come to you for?

Light · 16
Friends

What's something you'd like to be known for?

Light · 17
Friends

What's the last book, show or song that got under your skin?

Light · 18
Friends

What's a version of your life you'd like to try for a year?

Light · 19
Friends

What's the next thing you're genuinely excited about?

Light · 20

Deeper · 20 deep questions for friends

Personal, but not heavy.

Friends

What do you think I don't know about your life right now?

Deeper · 01
Friends

When was the last time you felt genuinely low?

Deeper · 02
Friends

What's something you've been dealing with alone?

Deeper · 03
Friends

What do you need from your friends that you don't ask for?

Deeper · 04
Friends

What's a friendship that ended badly, and what did it teach you?

Deeper · 05
Friends

What do you think your biggest flaw is?

Deeper · 06
Friends

When do you feel lonely, even around people?

Deeper · 07
Friends

What's a decision you're second-guessing?

Deeper · 08
Friends

What's something you've outgrown but haven't let go of?

Deeper · 09
Friends

What do you think I get wrong about you?

Deeper · 10
Friends

What's a fear you have about the next few years?

Deeper · 11
Friends

When did you last feel proud of yourself?

Deeper · 12
Friends

What's a part of your family life you rarely talk about?

Deeper · 13
Friends

What's something you envy in other people?

Deeper · 14
Friends

What do you wish you were braver about?

Deeper · 15
Friends

What's the hardest thing you've been through since we've known each other?

Deeper · 16
Friends

What do you want your thirties, forties, whatever's next to look like?

Deeper · 17
Friends

What kind of support actually helps you?

Deeper · 18
Friends

What's a thing about you I've never thought to ask?

Deeper · 19
Friends

What do you think you're avoiding?

Deeper · 20

Deepest · 20 deep questions for friends

The ones that stay with you.

Friends

What's the loneliest period of your life been?

Deepest · 01
Friends

What do you carry from your childhood that still shapes you?

Deepest · 02
Friends

What's something you've never forgiven yourself for?

Deepest · 03
Friends

Who has hurt you most, and have you told them?

Deepest · 04
Friends

What do you think people would be surprised to know about you?

Deepest · 05
Friends

What's a version of yourself you're afraid of becoming?

Deepest · 06
Friends

What are you grieving that nobody knows about?

Deepest · 07
Friends

What's the hardest truth you've had to accept?

Deepest · 08
Friends

When did someone last really get you without you explaining?

Deepest · 09
Friends

What do you want that you feel you don't deserve?

Deepest · 10
Friends

What's something you'd want said at your funeral that isn't true yet?

Deepest · 11
Friends

What's the closest you've come to giving up?

Deepest · 12
Friends

What do you need to hear from someone, and from who?

Deepest · 13
Friends

What's a relationship you're staying in out of fear?

Deepest · 14
Friends

What have you lied about for so long it feels true?

Deepest · 15
Friends

What do you want to have healed by the end of this decade?

Deepest · 16
Friends

If you could tell one person one thing with no consequences, who and what?

Deepest · 17
Friends

What do you think your life is for?

Deepest · 18
Friends

What would you change if nobody would be disappointed in you?

Deepest · 19
Friends

What do you hope I'd do if you fell apart?

Deepest · 20

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