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Around the Table · 84 questions

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

1. What's the best thing on this table, and who made it?
2. What's a Thanksgiving dish that should be retired?
3. What's your earliest memory of this holiday?
4. Who in this family is the best cook, and be brave?
5. What's the strangest Thanksgiving you've had?
6. What would you add to this menu if you had a free pass?
7. What's the best part of today so far?
8. What's a family tradition you'd defend to anyone?
9. Who travelled furthest to be here, and was it worth it?
10. What's something good that happened to you this year?
11. What are you looking forward to before the year ends?
12. What's the funniest thing that's happened at this table?
13. What would you name this year if it were a film?
14. What's a leftovers combination you'd defend?
15. What's the best thing you've cooked this year?
16. What's a memory of this house you'd keep forever?
17. Who's the most competitive person here and at what?
18. What's something new you tried this year?
19. What would you want on the table if you hosted next year?
20. What's the smell that means home to you?
21. Which side dish would you save first in a kitchen emergency?
22. Pumpkin pie or pecan pie, and defend it?
23. Who would win a turkey-carving contest at this table?
24. Describe the worst Thanksgiving recipe fail you've seen.
25. Do you watch football, the parade, or neither?
26. Which relative tells the best stories at these dinners?
27. How many plates are you planning to fill today?
28. Should stuffing be cooked inside the bird or out?
29. Name a Thanksgiving food you only pretend to like.
30. Is cranberry sauce better from a can or homemade?
31. Which dessert disappears fastest in this family?
32. Who takes the longest nap after dinner?
33. Describe your perfect leftover sandwich.
34. Would you rather host Thanksgiving or bring a dish?
35. Which kitchen gadget saves this meal every year?
36. How early do you start thinking about the menu?
37. Rate the turkey this year out of ten.
38. Do you have a lucky seat at this table?
39. Which family game should we play after dinner?
40. Tell me about the best Thanksgiving outfit you've seen.
41. If the turkey could talk, what would it say right now?
42. Which relative always brings the most food?
43. How many desserts is too many?
44. Should we start a new game or contest this year?
45. Name the best gravy you've ever had.
46. Is there a dish from another culture you'd add to this menu?
47. Which part of the meal do you look forward to most?
48. Who in this family would win a pie-eating contest?
49. Tell me your funniest kids' table memory.
50. Do you help cook, or are you the official taste tester?
51. Which Thanksgiving movie or show do you rewatch?
52. How do you feel about sweet potatoes with marshmallows?
53. Would you rather do dishes or clear the table?
54. Which smell from the kitchen makes you hungriest?
55. Tell me who taught you to make your best dish.
56. Is there a holiday song that belongs to this day?
57. Which relative has the loudest laugh?
58. How long could you go on just leftovers?
59. Name a new dish you'd like to try next year.
60. Should Thanksgiving have a dress code?
61. Which part of the day is the most chaotic?
62. Who is the best at setting the table?
63. Tell me something funny a kid said at a past Thanksgiving.
64. Do you prefer white meat or dark meat?
65. Which relative gives the best hugs?
66. If you could invite anyone famous to dinner, who?
67. How did you spend Thanksgiving as a kid?
68. Is there a family recipe you'd love to learn?
69. Which pie should never be served again?
70. Tell me the best thing about fall this year.
71. Would you rather do a turkey trot or a long nap?
72. Which job at Thanksgiving do you always end up with?
73. How many times will someone say they're stuffed?
74. Name the best Thanksgiving you've ever had.
75. Should we go around and say one funny thing about this year?
76. Which leftover goes first in your house?
77. Who is most likely to sneak food before dinner starts?
78. Tell me the story behind your favorite dish on this table.
79. Do you have a tradition for the day after Thanksgiving?
80. Which snack should be out before the big meal?
81. How do you feel about Friendsgiving?
82. If this family had a mascot, what would it be?
83. Which dish tastes like someone's hug?
84. Where did you spend your most unusual Thanksgiving?

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Gratitude · 83 questions

Personal, but not heavy.

1. What are you genuinely grateful for this year — not the easy answer?
2. Who helped you this year, and have you told them?
3. What was the hardest month of your year?
4. What's something you're proud of that hasn't come up today?
5. What did this year teach you?
6. What's something you're grateful for that you couldn't have said last year?
7. Who at this table has shaped you most?
8. What's a difficult thing you got through?
9. What are you hoping for next year?
10. What's something you'd like to do more of with the people here?
11. What did you let go of this year?
12. What's a friendship or relationship you're thankful for?
13. What's a small kindness someone showed you recently?
14. What are you grateful for about our family, specifically?
15. What's something you want to change before next Thanksgiving?
16. What did you underestimate this year?
17. Who would you want at this table who isn't here?
18. What's the best decision you made this year?
19. What are you grateful for about yourself?
20. What would make next year a good one for you?
21. Which moment this year are you most thankful for?
22. Describe someone who showed up for you this year.
23. How has your idea of gratitude changed as you've gotten older?
24. Can you name a small thing you're thankful for that no one would guess?
25. Which family member do you want to thank today?
26. Do you find it easy or hard to say thank you?
27. Walk me through a lesson that came from a tough moment.
28. How did you grow this year?
29. Which friendship means more to you now than a year ago?
30. Can you think of a new tradition you'd like to start with us?
31. Walk me through a time a stranger made your day.
32. How do you want to give back next year?
33. Which part of your life feels most full right now?
34. Honestly, do you have someone you haven't thanked properly?
35. Walk me through something you took for granted before this year.
36. How has this family helped you through something?
37. Which of your goals came true this year?
38. Is there a place you're grateful to call home?
39. Say something about yourself you're thankful for.
40. How do you show thanks to the people you love?
41. Which teacher or mentor are you still grateful for?
42. Do you think this family says thank you enough?
43. Walk me through a moment you felt really lucky.
44. How did someone at this table make your year better?
45. Which habit made your life better this year?
46. Is there something hard you're grateful you went through?
47. Say what you're looking forward to in the year ahead.
48. How do you want to spend more time with this family?
49. Which of your blessings do you think about most?
50. Do you remember a Thanksgiving that changed you?
51. Walk me through a gift that meant a lot to you this year.
52. How has your health or body carried you this year?
53. Which person made you laugh the most this year?
54. Is there a skill you picked up that you're proud of?
55. Walk me through a small win that felt huge.
56. How do you remind yourself to be grateful on bad days?
57. Which part of our family history makes you proud?
58. Do you feel closer to anyone here than last year?
59. Walk me through someone you'd like to invite next year.
60. How did you take care of yourself this year?
61. Which memory from this year do you want to keep forever?
62. Is there a kindness you want to pay forward?
63. Tell me what home means to you this year.
64. How has this year surprised you?
65. Which of your friends do you want to thank out loud?
66. Do you have a gratitude habit, like journaling or prayer?
67. Tell me about a time this family pulled together.
68. How do you feel about the year that's ending?
69. Which change are you grateful you made?
70. Is there a meal that reminds you of someone you love?
71. Tell me what you learned from the oldest person here.
72. How would you describe this year in one word?
73. Which simple pleasure got you through this year?
74. Do you feel like you've been a good friend this year?
75. Tell me about a time you were proud of someone at this table.
76. How have you changed since last Thanksgiving?
77. Which of your worries turned out okay this year?
78. Is there something you forgive yourself for this year?
79. Tell me about a door that opened for you.
80. How can we support each other better next year?
81. Which person here do you want to know better?
82. Do you feel appreciated in this family?
83. Tell me what you hope to be thankful for next year.

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Family Stories · 83 questions

The ones that stay with you.

1. What's a story about this family that should be told before it's forgotten?
2. Who's missing from this table, and what would they have said today?
3. What's the hardest year this family has been through together?
4. What do you wish you'd asked your parents or grandparents while you could?
5. What do you want the youngest people here to know about where they come from?
6. What's something about your life you've never shared at this table?
7. What did this family survive that we don't talk about?
8. What's a tradition that came from someone we've lost?
9. What do you hope this family still does in thirty years?
10. What would you want cleared up with someone here?
11. What do you regret about a year you can't get back?
12. Who in this family do you wish you were closer to?
13. What did you learn about love from the people who raised you?
14. What do you want said about you at this table one day?
15. What's the best advice anyone in this family ever gave?
16. What's a version of your life you gave up, and are you at peace with it?
17. What do you need from the people here that you've never asked for?
18. What's the thing you're most grateful you didn't get?
19. What do you hope we all remember about today?
20. If this were the last one of these, what would you want to say?
21. Which family member's story do you wish you knew more about?
22. Describe the first Thanksgiving you remember without someone.
23. How did our family get through its hardest season?
24. Can you name a family secret that finally makes sense to you now?
25. Which recipe carries the memory of someone we've lost?
26. Does anyone know how our grandparents met?
27. Walk me through a moment you felt most proud to be part of this family.
28. How has this family changed since you were a child?
29. Which old family photo tells the biggest story?
30. Can you think of someone here you've never properly thanked?
31. Walk me through a sacrifice someone in this family made for you.
32. How do you want to be remembered by the kids here?
33. Which family trait do you hope skips the next generation?
34. Honestly, do you feel like you belong at this table?
35. Walk me through the hardest holiday you've ever had.
36. How did your parents' choices shape your life?
37. Which family tradition do you want to protect forever?
38. Is there a relative you wish you'd known longer?
39. Imagine what our ancestors might think of us today.
40. How do you want this family to handle hard times in the future?
41. Which moment made you see a parent as a real person?
42. Do you think we've healed from our old family fights?
43. Say something you've always wanted to say to this family.
44. How has loss changed the way we gather?
45. Which story about you do you want the kids to hear someday?
46. Is there a place our family came from that you'd like to visit?
47. Walk me through the bravest person in our family tree.
48. How did you learn what family really means?
49. Which of your parents' struggles do you understand better now?
50. Do you ever worry about our family drifting apart?
51. Walk me through a time this family surprised you with love.
52. How would you describe our family to a stranger, honestly?
53. Which empty chair do you feel most today?
54. Is there an apology you've been waiting to give someone here?
55. Say what you hope the next generation keeps from us.
56. How do you want to spend holidays when you're very old?
57. Which hard lesson did this family teach you?
58. Do you think our family is closer or further apart than before?
59. Tell me about a relative whose life you'd like to honor.
60. How did someone here love you when you were hard to love?
61. Which moment from past Thanksgivings do you wish you could redo?
62. Is there a family story that deserves to be written down?
63. Tell me what you're most afraid of losing in this family.
64. How can we make sure no one here feels left out?
65. Which family member do you see yourself in the most?
66. Do you remember a time this family almost broke?
67. Tell me what you'd want to hear from your parents today.
68. How do you carry our family's history in your own life?
69. Which blessing do you think we don't talk about enough?
70. Is there something you want to forgive before the year ends?
71. Tell me about a promise you made to someone in this family.
72. How would our family be different without its hardest times?
73. Which part of our family story makes you cry?
74. Do you think we say I love you enough?
75. Tell me what legacy you want to leave this family.
76. How has becoming an adult changed how you see this family?
77. Which memory of a grandparent do you hold closest?
78. Is there a question you want to ask the oldest person here?
79. Tell me what makes you feel most at home with us.
80. How would you want this family to remember today?
81. Which tradition would you start in memory of someone?
82. Do you know what you'd say if this were our last Thanksgiving together?
83. Where will you carry this table's stories after today?

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