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Warm-Up · 84 questions

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

1. What would you do with a day nobody could contact you?
2. What's the last thing you spent too much money on?
3. Which of your friends would you call from a police station?
4. What's a talent you'd swap yours for?
5. What's your most-repeated meal?
6. What age would you stay at forever?
7. What's the best thing you own for under twenty dollars?
8. What would your reality show be about?
9. What's the last thing that made you say 'no way' out loud?
10. Which fictional world would you actually survive in?
11. What's the pettiest thing you've held a grudge about?
12. What would you do first if you woke up rich tomorrow?
13. What's a smell that takes you straight back somewhere?
14. What are you unreasonably competitive about?
15. What's the strangest job you'd genuinely consider?
16. Which of your habits would you keep if you could only keep one?
17. What did you think was cool at fourteen?
18. What's the longest you've stayed awake, and why?
19. What's the last thing you did purely for yourself?
20. Which decade would you have wanted to be twenty in?
21. What's something you'd happily do every weekend for a year?
22. Which snack would you smuggle into a movie theater every single time?
23. If your life had a theme song, who would be singing it?
24. Where would you go if someone handed you a plane ticket leaving tonight?
25. Who was your first celebrity crush, and do you still stand by it?
26. Describe your dream house in three rooms.
27. Which app would you delete first if you had to cut one?
28. How do you take your coffee, and what does that say about you?
29. Which instrument would you want to master overnight?
30. Tell me about the worst haircut you've ever had.
31. Which chore would you pay almost anything to never do again?
32. Who in your family would win a cooking competition?
33. When did you last laugh so hard you couldn't breathe?
34. If you ran a restaurant, what would be the one dish everyone ordered?
35. Which song do you know every single word to?
36. Where did you go on your best vacation as a kid?
37. How would your friends describe your texting style?
38. What painting or photo would you love to live inside?
39. Which celebrity would you want as your neighbor?
40. Tell me the most embarrassing thing in your search history you can admit.
41. Who taught you to drive, and how did it go?
42. If you had to wear one outfit forever, what are you wearing?
43. Which rule did you break most as a teenager?
44. How many hours of sleep do you really get, honestly?
45. When was the last time you danced like nobody was watching?
46. Imagine you could instantly be fluent in any language, which one?
47. Which movie can you quote from start to finish?
48. Where is the most beautiful place you've ever stood?
49. Who is the funniest person you've ever met?
50. Tell me about a trend you followed and now regret.
51. If you won a free year of something, what would you want it to be?
52. Which season fits your personality best?
53. How do you spend the first hour after you wake up?
54. When you get a free evening, where do you end up?
55. If you were a kitchen gadget, which one would you be?
56. Which cartoon character are you most like?
57. Tell me about your go-to karaoke song.
58. Who would play you in the movie of your life?
59. Dinner with any historical figure: who's at the table?
60. Which food do you refuse to eat no matter what?
61. How would you spend a snow day with no obligations?
62. Where would you hide if a zombie outbreak started right now?
63. Tell me about the best meal you've ever eaten.
64. What would you do with one extra hour every day?
65. Which sport would you be surprisingly good at?
66. Who was your favorite teacher, and why them?
67. When did you last try something for the very first time?
68. If you had a boat, what would you name it?
69. Which holiday do you get the most excited about?
70. How did you get your nickname, if you have one?
71. Talk about a weird talent you're a little proud of.
72. Where would your dream road trip end?
73. Imagine you could time travel for one afternoon, when are you going?
74. Which board game brings out your worst side?
75. Who is the last person you texted, and what about?
76. Should pineapple go on pizza? Defend your answer.
77. If you were famous, what would you be famous for?
78. Which store could you lose hours in?
79. Describe something you collected as a kid.
80. Would you rather explore the deep ocean or outer space?
81. How do you celebrate your birthday when it's up to you?
82. Whose pet would you swap lives with for a day?
83. Which word do you say way too often?
84. Tell me the last compliment a stranger gave you.

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No Passing · 84 questions

Personal, but not heavy.

1. What do you think people misread about you?
2. What's a decision you'd take back if there were no consequences?
3. Who in your life do you perform for?
4. What's the last thing you lied about, even slightly?
5. What are you jealous of that you'd never admit?
6. What's the closest you've come to walking out of your own life?
7. Who has power over your mood that shouldn't?
8. What did you need at sixteen that nobody gave you?
9. What do you do that you know isn't good for you?
10. What's a compliment you refuse to believe?
11. When did you last feel genuinely out of your depth?
12. What are you putting off because it would change everything?
13. What's a friendship you're staying in out of habit?
14. What would your closest friend say your blind spot is?
15. What's the most alone you've felt in a room full of people?
16. What are you still trying to prove, and to whom?
17. What do you think you'd be doing if one thing had gone differently?
18. What's a fear that shapes more of your life than you admit?
19. When did you last do something genuinely brave?
20. What have you stopped admitting you want?
21. What part of your life would you not want filmed?
22. Who do you call when something good happens first?
23. Which relationship in your life has changed the most in the last year?
24. How do you act when you're hurt but don't want anyone to know?
25. When do you feel most confident?
26. If you could have a do-over on one year of your life, which year?
27. Which of your parents are you more like, and how do you feel about that?
28. Tell me about a time you were wrong and had to admit it.
29. Where do you feel most at home, and why there?
30. How do you know when you really trust someone?
31. Which part of your personality took you the longest to accept?
32. If money didn't matter, what would you do for work?
33. Who is someone you wish you'd kept in touch with?
34. When did you last change your mind about something important?
35. Tell me about a moment you felt truly proud of yourself.
36. How do you handle it when someone is disappointed in you?
37. Which promise to yourself have you broken most often?
38. If you could say one thing to your younger self, what would it be?
39. Who has shaped your sense of humor the most?
40. When do you find it hardest to be honest?
41. Tell me about the best advice you ignored.
42. How has your idea of success changed over the years?
43. Which habit of yours do you hope nobody notices?
44. If you could fix one thing about how you argue, what would it be?
45. Who in your life makes you feel the most accepted?
46. When did you realize you were an adult?
47. Tell me about something you believed for years and then stopped believing.
48. How do you show someone you care without saying it?
49. Which of your friends knows you best, and how did that happen?
50. If your life slowed down tomorrow, what would you finally deal with?
51. Who do you compare yourself to, and why?
52. When did someone surprise you by showing up for you?
53. Tell me about a door you closed that you still think about.
54. How do you want people to feel after they spend time with you?
55. Which chapter of your life are you in right now?
56. If you could let go of one worry, which one would you drop?
57. Who do you miss who's still alive?
58. When was the last time you felt truly rested?
59. Tell me about a mistake that turned out to be a gift.
60. How do you react when plans fall apart at the last minute?
61. Which dream have you quietly given up on?
62. If you could spend a year learning anything, what would you study?
63. Who do you owe a thank-you you've never given?
64. When do you feel most misunderstood?
65. Describe a moment that changed how you see your family.
66. How much of who you are is your own choice?
67. Which of your values would you never bend on?
68. If a stranger read your journal, what would surprise them?
69. Who is the hardest person for you to say no to?
70. When did you last feel really jealous of someone close to you?
71. Share a story about something you're still learning to be good at.
72. These days, how do you want to be comforted when you're sad?
73. Which part of your routine keeps you sane?
74. If your friends had to describe your flaws, what would come up first?
75. Who do you turn into when you're stressed?
76. Looking back, when did you last stand up for yourself?
77. Talk about a time you felt completely free.
78. How do you know when a friendship is over?
79. Which risk are you glad you took?
80. If you could relive one ordinary day, which would it be?
81. Who gave you your first taste of heartbreak?
82. When do you pretend to be fine?
83. Describe a place you'll never go back to.
84. How honest are you with yourself, really?

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No Lying · 84 questions

The ones that stay with you.

1. What's the worst thing you've done that you've never been caught for?
2. Who have you loved that you've never told?
3. What's the last thing you cried about, and did anyone know?
4. What would you change about the way you were raised?
5. What do you think about at the worst hour of the night?
6. Who do you resent, and would they be surprised?
7. What's the thing you'd want deleted from your own memory?
8. What have you forgiven that you're still carrying?
9. What's the hardest truth someone has ever told you?
10. What do you think you'll regret on your last day?
11. What part of yourself do you hide from everyone here?
12. Who did you let down when it mattered?
13. What's a version of your life you grieve?
14. What would break you, if anything?
15. What do you need to say to someone before it's too late?
16. What are you most ashamed of, and is it fair?
17. Who knows the real version of you, and how did they earn it?
18. What have you never told anyone in this room?
19. What do you want your life to have added up to?
20. If you had to be completely honest for one minute, what would you say?
21. What's the question you're hoping nobody asks tonight?
22. Who would you call if you only had one phone call left?
23. What's a secret you've kept for someone else that weighs on you?
24. When did you feel the most lost you've ever been?
25. Tell me about a moment you wish you could apologize for.
26. How do you want to be remembered by the person across from you?
27. Which loss changed you the most?
28. If you knew you couldn't fail, what would you finally attempt?
29. Who hurt you in a way they'll never know?
30. When have you felt unlovable?
31. Tell me about the person you were before your hardest year.
32. How do you really feel about growing older?
33. Which fear have you never said out loud?
34. If your parents could read your mind for a day, what would upset them?
35. Who do you need to forgive before you can move on?
36. When did you last feel completely understood?
37. Tell me about a goodbye that still hurts.
38. How close have you come to giving up on yourself?
39. Which part of your story do you usually skip when you tell it?
40. If you could change one thing about how you love people, what would it be?
41. Who would you be without your biggest insecurity?
42. When did you stop believing someone could protect you?
43. Tell me about something you've never forgiven yourself for.
44. How do you think the people close to you really see you?
45. Which relationship do you wish had ended differently?
46. If you had a year left, who would you spend it with?
47. Who taught you that love has conditions?
48. When did you feel the most ashamed?
49. Tell me about a promise you broke that still bothers you.
50. How often do you feel lonely, honestly?
51. Which moment would you relive if you could feel it again for the first time?
52. If you could hear one person's honest opinion of you, whose would you want?
53. Who have you pushed away without meaning to?
54. When did you realize your parents were just people?
55. Tell me about a night you thought would never end.
56. How much of your life are you living for someone else?
57. Which truth about yourself are you still avoiding?
58. If you could erase one sentence someone said to you, which would it be?
59. Who do you wish had fought harder for you?
60. When was the last time you asked for help and meant it?
61. Describe the biggest thing you've ever sacrificed.
62. How has your worst day shaped the person you are?
63. Which part of you do you think is hardest to love?
64. If someone wrote your eulogy tonight, what would be missing?
65. Who in your past do you still feel responsible for?
66. When do you feel most like a fraud?
67. Share a story about a love you gave up on too soon.
68. How do you want this friendship, or this night, to change you?
69. Which regret do you think about more than you'd like?
70. Imagine you could ask someone who's gone one question, what would it be?
71. Who would you want beside you in your final hour?
72. When did you last feel truly safe?
73. Talk about a moment you almost said something that would have changed everything.
74. How have you hurt the people who love you most?
75. Which version of yourself do you miss?
76. If your heart could say one thing without your permission, what would it say?
77. Who saw you at your lowest and stayed?
78. Looking back, when did you choose yourself, and what did it cost?
79. Describe a dream you had for your life that isn't coming true.
80. How do you comfort yourself when nobody else can?
81. Which question have you been too scared to ask someone you love?
82. Which part of your past do you most want to make peace with?
83. Who do you think you'd become if nobody was watching?
84. Would you tell me the truth right now if it cost you something?

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