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What's been the highlight of your week?
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Most first date questions are a job interview in disguise. These aren't. Start light, and if it's going well, the deeper levels are where you find out whether there's anything real here.
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Easy openers. Safe for anyone.
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Are you a planner or do you figure it out when you get there?
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What's something you're into that most people find strange?
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What did you do before this that you thought you'd do forever?
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What's the best meal you've had in this city?
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How do you actually spend a free Saturday?
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What's a place you keep meaning to go back to?
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What's the last thing you got genuinely obsessed with?
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Are you close with your family, or is that a whole conversation?
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What's something you're proud of that isn't on your CV?
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What's your most-repeated album or artist?
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What would you be doing right now if we hadn't met up?
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What's a small thing that instantly improves your day?
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Do you like where you live, or is it temporary?
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What's a movie you'd rewatch tonight without complaining?
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What did you believe as a teenager that you find funny now?
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What's something you've learned recently?
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City person, water person, or mountain person?
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What's the best trip you've taken, and what made it good?
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What are you looking forward to in the next few months?
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Deeper · 20 first date questions
Personal, but not heavy.
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What made you say yes to this?
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What's something you're working on about yourself?
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What kind of people do you end up closest to?
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What's a decision that changed the direction of your life?
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What do you want your life to look like in five years — honestly, not impressively?
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What's something you used to want that you don't anymore?
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How do you handle it when things go badly?
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What's a friendship that shaped you?
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What do you need from people to feel comfortable?
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What's the last thing that made you rethink something?
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What's a risk you're glad you took?
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Where are you when you feel most like yourself?
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What's something people assume about you that's wrong?
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What did you learn about relationships from your parents?
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What's a hard year you've had, and what got you through?
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What are you not willing to compromise on?
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What do you do when you like someone?
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What's something you're still figuring out?
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When did you last do something outside your comfort zone?
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What's missing from your life at the moment?
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Deepest · 20 first date questions
The ones that stay with you.
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What are you actually looking for — and are you telling the truth?
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What's the pattern you keep repeating in relationships?
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What's something you'd want a partner to know early?
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What's the loneliest period of your life been like?
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What do you think you're bad at in relationships?
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What would someone who dated you say about you?
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What's a fear you carry into every new thing?
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What have you had to forgive yourself for?
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What do you want that you feel embarrassed to want?
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What's the last time you were truly honest with someone about how you felt?
Deepest · 10
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What kind of love did you grow up around?
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What would make you walk away from something good?
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What are you healing from right now?
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What do you hope this turns into, if anything?
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What's a version of yourself you left behind?
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What do you struggle to say out loud?
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When did you last feel completely understood?
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What do you need more than you admit?
Deepest · 18
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What would you want said about you at the end of it all?
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What's the question you were hoping I wouldn't ask?
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