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The best questions to ask a girl are the ones she hasn't answered a hundred times already. Start light, and let the deeper levels do the work when the conversation is ready for it.

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Light · 20 Questions to Ask a Girl

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

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What's something you're into that surprises people?

Light · 01
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What's gone right this week?

Light · 02
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What did you spend all your time on as a teenager?

Light · 03
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What's your comfort film or show?

Light · 04
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What's a place you'd go back to tomorrow?

Light · 05
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What's something small that always lifts your mood?

Light · 06
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What's your most-played song at the moment?

Light · 07
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What would your perfect slow day look like?

Light · 08
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What's a compliment you actually remember?

Light · 09
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What's the last thing you made or fixed yourself?

Light · 10
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What are you reading, watching, or ignoring right now?

Light · 11
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What's your relationship with mornings?

Light · 12
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What's a food you'd never share?

Light · 13
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What's a hobby you'd pick up with more time?

Light · 14
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What's the best gift you've ever been given?

Light · 15
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Where do you go when you want to think?

Light · 16
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What's something you're weirdly particular about?

Light · 17
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What did you believe as a kid that you find funny now?

Light · 18
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Which journey do you measure others against?

Light · 19
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What's next that you actually want?

Light · 20

Deeper · 20 Questions to Ask a Girl

Personal, but not heavy.

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What are you working on in your life right now?

Deeper · 01
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What kind of people do you end up close to?

Deeper · 02
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What's something you've had to learn the hard way?

Deeper · 03
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What makes you walk into a room differently?

Deeper · 04
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Which of your choices aged well?

Deeper · 05
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What do people assume about you that's wrong?

Deeper · 06
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What did you learn about relationships growing up?

Deeper · 07
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What makes you lower your guard?

Deeper · 08
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Which year would you not want to repeat?

Deeper · 09
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Where does your ambition run out?

Deeper · 10
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What's something you're proud of that nobody knows?

Deeper · 11
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How do you handle it when you're overwhelmed?

Deeper · 12
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Who made you into who you are, outside your family?

Deeper · 13
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What do you wish people asked you more?

Deeper · 14
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What no longer fits you?

Deeper · 15
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Where do you wish you had more nerve?

Deeper · 16
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What do you want your next few years to look like?

Deeper · 17
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What's the last thing that changed how you think?

Deeper · 18
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What do you do when you're disappointed in yourself?

Deeper · 19
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What would you never tolerate again?

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Deepest · 20 Questions to Ask a Girl

The ones that stay with you.

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What did childhood hand you that you're still holding?

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When were you most on your own?

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What are you afraid people would see if they looked closely?

Deepest · 03
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What's stayed entirely yours, never spoken?

Deepest · 04
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What are you grieving that nobody asks about?

Deepest · 05
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What took you the longest to let go of?

Deepest · 06
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What do you need that you've stopped asking for?

Deepest · 07
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When did you last feel completely safe with someone?

Deepest · 08
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What's a pattern in your life you're trying to break?

Deepest · 09
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What do you want that feels too much to want?

Deepest · 10
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What part of yourself did you put away to be liked?

Deepest · 11
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When did something last get past your guard?

Deepest · 12
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Who has known the real you, and what happened?

Deepest · 13
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If your life stayed exactly like this, what would you mourn?

Deepest · 14
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What's a truth about yourself you're still accepting?

Deepest · 15
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What would you do if you weren't afraid of being alone?

Deepest · 16
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What do you need to hear more than anything?

Deepest · 17
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What's the version of your life you almost had?

Deepest · 18
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What do you want to have been to the people who love you?

Deepest · 19
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What's the thing you'd say if you knew it was safe?

Deepest · 20

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