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Light · 84 questions

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

1. What's something you're into that surprises people?
2. What's gone right this week?
3. What did you spend all your time on as a teenager?
4. What's your comfort film or show?
5. What's a place you'd go back to tomorrow?
6. What's something small that always lifts your mood?
7. What's your most-played song at the moment?
8. What would your perfect slow day look like?
9. What's a compliment you actually remember?
10. What's the last thing you made or fixed yourself?
11. What are you reading, watching, or ignoring right now?
12. What's your relationship with mornings?
13. What's a food you'd never share?
14. What's a hobby you'd pick up with more time?
15. What's the best gift you've ever been given?
16. Where do you go when you want to think?
17. What's something you're weirdly particular about?
18. What did you believe as a kid that you find funny now?
19. Which journey do you measure others against?
20. What's next that you actually want?
21. Which snack would you bring to a movie marathon?
22. How do you take your coffee, or are you a tea person?
23. If you could live inside any book, which one?
24. Do you have a go-to karaoke song?
25. Name a smell that instantly takes you back to summer.
26. Which celebrity would you want as a best friend for a day?
27. How many tabs are open on your phone right now?
28. Is there a store you could wander around for hours?
29. Which season makes you feel most like yourself?
30. Would you rather explore a new city alone or with a crowd?
31. Pick a decade to dress in forever: which one?
32. How do you spend the first hour after waking up?
33. Which cartoon character were you most like as a kid?
34. Do you collect anything, even by accident?
35. Name the best concert you've ever been to.
36. If your life had a signature color, what would it be?
37. Which dessert would you pick for your birthday every year?
38. How would your friends describe your texting style?
39. Is there a trend you loved that nobody talks about anymore?
40. Which vacation photo of yours deserves a frame?
41. Would you rather have a garden, a studio, or a library at home?
42. Name a movie line you quote way too often.
43. How do you like to celebrate small wins?
44. Which app would you delete if you had more willpower?
45. Do you sing in the car, and what's on the playlist?
46. If you could master any instrument overnight, which one?
47. Which childhood toy would you rescue from a fire?
48. How brave are you with spicy food?
49. Is there a podcast you'd recommend to anyone?
50. Name a place near you that feels like a hidden gem.
51. Which holiday do you go all out for?
52. Would you rather go to a cozy cabin or a beach house?
53. How would you spend a surprise snow day?
54. Which game could you play for hours without noticing?
55. Do you have a signature dish you love to cook?
56. Pick one superpower for your commute.
57. Which of your friends would survive a zombie movie?
58. How early do you start planning your trips?
59. Is there a tiny ritual that makes your weekends feel special?
60. Name a guilty pleasure show you'd defend.
61. Which city would you move to for a year if you could?
62. Would you rather have breakfast for dinner or dinner for breakfast?
63. How do you pick what to wear on a busy morning?
64. Which song always gets you on the dance floor?
65. Do you prefer sunrise or sunset, and why?
66. Name a small purchase that improved your life a lot.
67. If you started a club, what would it be about?
68. Which room in your home is your favorite?
69. How do you feel about surprise parties?
70. Is there a skill you picked up during a strange phase of life?
71. Which famous person's dinner party would you crash?
72. Would you rather be a morning jogger or a midnight baker?
73. Name the funniest thing that happened to you at school.
74. How do you unwind after a long week?
75. Which animal would you be for a day?
76. Do you plan your weekends or let them happen?
77. If you had a food truck, what would you serve?
78. Which museum or gallery has stuck with you?
79. How would you describe your style in three words?
80. Is there a place you've always wanted to see in person?
81. Name the best road trip snack.
82. Which fictional family would you join?
83. Would you rather have a talent for painting or singing?
84. How do you feel about rainy days?

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Deeper · 83 questions

Personal, but not heavy.

1. What are you working on in your life right now?
2. What kind of people do you end up close to?
3. What's something you've had to learn the hard way?
4. What makes you walk into a room differently?
5. Which of your choices aged well?
6. What do people assume about you that's wrong?
7. What did you learn about relationships growing up?
8. What makes you lower your guard?
9. Which year would you not want to repeat?
10. Where does your ambition run out?
11. What's something you're proud of that nobody knows?
12. How do you handle it when you're overwhelmed?
13. Who made you into who you are, outside your family?
14. What do you wish people asked you more?
15. What no longer fits you?
16. Where do you wish you had more nerve?
17. What do you want your next few years to look like?
18. What's the last thing that changed how you think?
19. What do you do when you're disappointed in yourself?
20. What would you never tolerate again?
21. Which woman in your life shaped how you see yourself?
22. When is a friendship worth keeping, in your eyes?
23. Is there a goal you're chasing quietly right now?
24. Name something you've stopped apologizing for.
25. Which compliment actually means something to you?
26. Do you feel like you're living the life you pictured?
27. When people drain you, what helps you recharge?
28. Which risk are you glad you took?
29. Where do you feel most confident?
30. Is there a part of your personality people misread?
31. How has your idea of success changed over the years?
32. Which of your friendships has lasted the longest, and why?
33. Name a moment you surprised yourself.
34. Do you find it easy to ask for help?
35. What does caring for someone look like when you do it?
36. Which value would you never compromise on?
37. Where do you want to be living in five years, ideally?
38. Is there a habit you're trying to build right now?
39. What happens when someone underestimates you?
40. Which lesson from your mom, or a mother figure, has stuck?
41. Name something you want to get better at this year.
42. Do you trust your gut, or do you overthink?
43. When a close friend and you clash, what usually happens?
44. Which job or role taught you the most about yourself?
45. Where do you feel pressure to be a certain way?
46. Name a belief you grew out of.
47. How do you like to be supported when things go wrong?
48. Which of your traits are you most proud of?
49. Name a boundary that changed your life.
50. Do you think people change, really?
51. Who gets to know the real you, and how do they earn it?
52. Which moment made you feel like an adult for the first time?
53. Where do you find calm when life gets loud?
54. Is there an opinion you hold that most people disagree with?
55. How do you feel about your relationship with your family now?
56. Which dream from childhood still pulls at you?
57. Name the best advice someone gave you.
58. A few close friends or a big circle: which suits you?
59. Could you name a way you celebrate yourself?
60. Which part of your life needs more attention?
61. Where did you learn to be strong?
62. Is there someone you'd like to thank but never did?
63. How do you know when you're truly happy?
64. Which of your mistakes taught you the most?
65. Name a quality you look for in a partner.
66. Do you feel understood by the people around you?
67. How has heartbreak changed the way you love?
68. Which fear have you already beaten?
69. Where do you want more adventure in your life?
70. Is there a part of your past you're proud you left behind?
71. On an ordinary Tuesday, how do you want to feel?
72. Which person do you go to for honest feedback?
73. Name something that always makes you feel at home.
74. Do you tend to put others first, even when you shouldn't?
75. How do you handle jealousy when it shows up?
76. Which cause or issue matters most to you?
77. Where do you feel your time goes that you'd like back?
78. Is there something you wish you'd started sooner?
79. How do you want your friends to describe you?
80. Which of your goals scares you a little?
81. Name a moment you stood up for yourself.
82. Do you think you're hard on yourself?
83. How have your twenties or thirties surprised you?

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Deepest · 83 questions

The ones that stay with you.

1. What did childhood hand you that you're still holding?
2. When were you most on your own?
3. What are you afraid people would see if they looked closely?
4. What's stayed entirely yours, never spoken?
5. What are you grieving that nobody asks about?
6. What took you the longest to let go of?
7. What do you need that you've stopped asking for?
8. When did you last feel completely safe with someone?
9. What's a pattern in your life you're trying to break?
10. What do you want that feels too much to want?
11. What part of yourself did you put away to be liked?
12. When did something last get past your guard?
13. Who has known the real you, and what happened?
14. If your life stayed exactly like this, what would you mourn?
15. What's a truth about yourself you're still accepting?
16. What would you do if you weren't afraid of being alone?
17. What do you need to hear more than anything?
18. What's the version of your life you almost had?
19. What do you want to have been to the people who love you?
20. What's the thing you'd say if you knew it was safe?
21. Which moment made you stop trusting easily?
22. How do you comfort yourself when nobody else is around?
23. Is there someone you still wish would apologize?
24. Name the hardest goodbye you've ever said.
25. Which part of your story do you rarely tell?
26. Do you ever feel like you have to earn your place with people?
27. How did you learn to hide how you feel?
28. Which fear follows you from relationship to relationship?
29. Where do you feel you've had to be too strong?
30. Could there be a version of yourself you miss?
31. How would you want someone to love you on your worst day?
32. Which relationship changed how you see yourself?
33. Name the time you felt most proud to be you.
34. Do you believe you deserve the love you want?
35. How has your body carried your stress over the years?
36. Which words from someone still echo in your head?
37. Where did you feel most invisible?
38. Is there a choice you're still quietly grieving?
39. How do you want to be remembered by the people closest to you?
40. Which dream have you been too scared to say out loud?
41. Name the moment you realized you'd outgrown someone.
42. Do you feel safe being fully yourself with anyone right now?
43. How has loss shaped the way you live?
44. Which of your walls would you like someone to climb?
45. Where do you still need healing?
46. Is there a promise you made to yourself that you broke?
47. How did your parents' relationship shape what you want?
48. Which moment of kindness saved you, even a little?
49. Name what you would tell your younger self about love.
50. Do you feel like people know the real you?
51. How do you forgive someone who never said sorry?
52. Which of your needs feels too much to ask for?
53. Where does your loneliness live?
54. Is there a relationship you're still making peace with?
55. How do you want your life to feel ten years from now?
56. Which truth about your family have you only recently understood?
57. Name the hardest thing you've ever had to accept about yourself.
58. Do you ever wonder if you're too sensitive?
59. How have you been let down by people who should have shown up?
60. Which part of you still wants to be rescued?
61. Where did you find the strength you didn't know you had?
62. Is there a moment you'd go back to just to feel it again?
63. How do you make peace with not being chosen?
64. Which dream would you pursue if failure didn't exist?
65. Name the kind of love you're afraid you'll never find.
66. Have you ever truly been heard, do you think?
67. How do you hold on to hope when things fall apart?
68. Which person would you want by your side at the end?
69. Where have you been settling in your life?
70. Is there a question you're scared to ask yourself?
71. How do you know when you're finally okay?
72. Which part of your past still decides things for you?
73. Name the moment you felt the most alive.
74. Do you carry guilt about someone you left behind?
75. How would you want your future children, or loved ones, to know you?
76. Which of your fears is the oldest?
77. Where do you most need permission to rest?
78. Is there a love you still think about?
79. How has being a woman shaped the way you move through the world?
80. Which moment changed who you trust?
81. Name something you're still waiting to hear from someone.
82. Do you feel like you've become who you hoped to be?
83. How can someone earn your whole heart?

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