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Getting to Know You Questions — Free Conversation Cards Online
Getting to know someone is not a list of facts. These questions go after the things that actually predict how someone will be in your life — how they decide, what they protect, what they run from.
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Easy openers. Safe for anyone.
Are you an early riser or does the morning happen to you?
What's your most-used app and what does that say?
What's a subject you could talk about endlessly?
How do you recharge — people or no people?
What's a small thing you're picky about?
What's your relationship with your phone like?
What did you love doing as a child?
What's your idea of a good holiday?
What's something you own that you'd replace immediately if lost?
What do you listen to when you're alone?
How do you feel about big groups?
What's your worst habit that you have no plans to fix?
What kind of humour do you have?
What's the last thing you got obsessed with?
What's your comfort meal?
How do you make decisions — gut or spreadsheet?
What's something you spend money on without guilt?
What's your most unusual interest?
What would your friends warn me about, jokingly?
Deeper · 20 getting to know you
Personal, but not heavy.
What's shaped you most that isn't obvious?
What do you need to feel comfortable around someone?
How do you handle conflict?
What do you do when you're overwhelmed?
What's the most important friendship in your life?
What did you have to figure out on your own?
What are you ambitious about, and what are you not?
What's a value you won't bend on?
What's the best thing about your family, and the hardest?
When do you feel most confident?
What's a mistake you made that changed you?
What do you avoid dealing with?
How do you want to spend your thirties, forties, whatever's next?
What kind of person do you become under pressure?
What do people rely on you for?
What have you had to unlearn?
What do you want more of in your life?
What's a hard decision you're proud of?
How do you show someone you care?
What would break your trust?
Deepest · 20 getting to know you
The ones that stay with you.
What's the thing about you that takes people longest to understand?
What are you most insecure about?
What's a wound you're still carrying?
What do you need that you've never been given?
What's the loneliest chapter of your life?
What have you never told anyone?
What do you think you'll struggle with in a serious relationship?
What's something you'd have to be very sure of someone to share?
What are you afraid people will see?
What's the hardest thing you've forgiven?
What would you want changed about how you were raised?
What do you do with feelings you can't explain?
What's a truth about yourself you resisted for years?
What would make a life feel well spent to you?
When were you last fully honest with someone?
What are you working towards that scares you?
What's the version of you nobody meets?
What would you need to feel truly safe with someone?
What are you hoping I turn out to be?
What's the question you'd ask me if you knew I'd answer honestly?