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Getting to Know You Questions — Free Conversation Cards Online

Getting to know someone is not a list of facts. These questions go after the things that actually predict how someone will be in your life — how they decide, what they protect, what they run from.

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Light · 20 getting to know you

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

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What's your ideal way to spend a day off?

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Are you an early riser or does the morning happen to you?

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What's your most-used app and what does that say?

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What's a subject you could talk about endlessly?

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How do you recharge — people or no people?

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What's a small thing you're picky about?

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What's your relationship with your phone like?

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What did you love doing as a child?

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What's your idea of a good holiday?

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What's something you own that you'd replace immediately if lost?

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What do you listen to when you're alone?

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How do you feel about big groups?

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What's your worst habit that you have no plans to fix?

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What kind of humour do you have?

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What's the last thing you got obsessed with?

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What's your comfort meal?

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How do you make decisions — gut or spreadsheet?

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What's something you spend money on without guilt?

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What's your most unusual interest?

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What would your friends warn me about, jokingly?

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Deeper · 20 getting to know you

Personal, but not heavy.

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What's shaped you most that isn't obvious?

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What do you need to feel comfortable around someone?

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How do you handle conflict?

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What do you do when you're overwhelmed?

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What's the most important friendship in your life?

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What did you have to figure out on your own?

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What are you ambitious about, and what are you not?

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What's a value you won't bend on?

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What's the best thing about your family, and the hardest?

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When do you feel most confident?

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What's a mistake you made that changed you?

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What do you avoid dealing with?

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How do you want to spend your thirties, forties, whatever's next?

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What kind of person do you become under pressure?

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What do people rely on you for?

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What have you had to unlearn?

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What do you want more of in your life?

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What's a hard decision you're proud of?

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How do you show someone you care?

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What would break your trust?

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Deepest · 20 getting to know you

The ones that stay with you.

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What's the thing about you that takes people longest to understand?

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What are you most insecure about?

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What's a wound you're still carrying?

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What do you need that you've never been given?

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What's the loneliest chapter of your life?

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What have you never told anyone?

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What do you think you'll struggle with in a serious relationship?

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What's something you'd have to be very sure of someone to share?

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What are you afraid people will see?

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What's the hardest thing you've forgiven?

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What would you want changed about how you were raised?

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What do you do with feelings you can't explain?

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What's a truth about yourself you resisted for years?

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What would make a life feel well spent to you?

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When were you last fully honest with someone?

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What are you working towards that scares you?

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What's the version of you nobody meets?

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What would you need to feel truly safe with someone?

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What are you hoping I turn out to be?

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What's the question you'd ask me if you knew I'd answer honestly?

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