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Most lists of questions to ask a guy read like a questionnaire. These don't. Level one keeps it easy, level three finds out what he's actually like when the joking stops.

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Light · 20 Questions to Ask a Guy

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

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What's something you're good at that never comes up?

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What did you want to be at eleven years old?

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What's the last thing you got properly into?

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Two days, nothing owed to anyone — what happens?

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What's your most-worn item of clothing?

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What sport or team could you talk about for an hour?

Light · 06
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What's the best thing you've eaten this year?

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What did your friends and you do for fun at seventeen?

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What's a film you'd defend against anyone?

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What's your worst habit that you're not planning to fix?

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What's the last thing that made you laugh out loud alone?

Light · 11
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What's the furthest you've travelled and why there?

Light · 12
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What's your idea of a good Friday night now versus five years ago?

Light · 13
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What are you saving up for?

Light · 14
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What's the oddest way you've earned money?

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What's something you own that you'd never replace?

Light · 16
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What's a skill you'd learn if it took a week?

Light · 17
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What music did you pretend not to like?

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What's your go-to order anywhere?

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What would you do with an extra hour every day?

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Deeper · 20 Questions to Ask a Guy

Personal, but not heavy.

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What are you actually working towards?

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What's something you've changed your mind about?

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Who taught you the most about being a man, and what did they get wrong?

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What do you do when things go badly?

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What gamble of yours actually worked out?

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What's the worst stretch you've come out the other side of?

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What kind of friendships do you keep, and why those?

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What do people get wrong about you?

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Where are you when you stop performing?

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What's something you're not good at that bothers you?

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What did you learn from your last relationship?

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What makes you relax around someone new?

Deeper · 12
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Which choice sent your life down a different road?

Deeper · 13
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What are you proud of that isn't obvious?

Deeper · 14
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What do you do when you can't fix something?

Deeper · 15
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Who do you talk to when you're struggling?

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Where's your line that nobody gets to move?

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What's something you've had to unlearn?

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What do you want your life to look like at fifty?

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What's the last thing that genuinely moved you?

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Deepest · 20 Questions to Ask a Guy

The ones that stay with you.

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When did isolation hit you hardest?

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What do you never talk about?

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What version of yourself would you hate to meet at fifty?

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What have you never forgiven yourself for?

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Who have you hurt, and does it still sit with you?

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What did you need as a boy that you didn't get?

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What do you carry that you've never put down?

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When did you last cry, and what was it about?

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What's the version of yourself you keep hidden?

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What are you calling fine that isn't?

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What do you want that you'd be embarrassed to say out loud?

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What's heaviest about your life at the moment?

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What would you change if nobody would be disappointed?

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Who do you miss that you never mention?

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What did you deny about yourself for far too long?

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What do you think you'll regret?

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When did someone last get you without explanation?

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Whose opinion are you still working for?

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What do you want to have meant to people?

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What's the thing you'd say if you knew it wouldn't be held against you?

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