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Light · 84 questions

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

1. What's the best date we've ever been on?
2. If tonight had no budget, what would we be doing instead?
3. What's a restaurant you'd take me to if we lived anywhere in the world?
4. What did you notice about me first?
5. What's a photo of us you love?
6. What's something you'd like to do together before the year ends?
7. If we had to pick a couple's hobby tonight, what are we picking?
8. What's the best trip we've taken?
9. What's a habit of mine that makes you laugh?
10. What would our reality show be called?
11. What's the most spontaneous thing we've done?
12. Which of us plans better, and does that annoy you?
13. What's a song that belongs to us?
14. What's your favorite thing about tonight so far?
15. If we could relive one day together, which one?
16. What's a place near here you've never been but want to try?
17. What's the nicest thing I've ever cooked or ordered for you?
18. What would you want the last thing we ate together to be?
19. What's a gift I gave you that you still think about?
20. If we swapped phones for a week, what would you find most boring about mine?
21. Which dessert on any menu would you order for both of us without asking?
22. Who would play each of us in the movie of our relationship?
23. Where would you take me on a surprise weekend if you had one hour to pack?
24. How would you describe our first kiss to a stranger?
25. If our love story had a theme song, who would sing it?
26. Describe your perfect lazy Sunday with me in three details.
27. Tell me the silliest thing you've ever pretended to like for my sake.
28. Name a smell that instantly puts you in a good mood.
29. Should we adopt a ridiculous nickname for our car, and what is it?
30. Remember the first time I made you laugh? What was it?
31. Of all our inside jokes, which one would confuse strangers the most?
32. Would you rather have a year of breakfasts in bed or a year of dinners out?
33. Is there a food you secretly think I cook better than anyone?
34. Pick one decade to time travel to for a date. Which, and why?
35. Which of my outfits would you burn, and which would you frame?
36. Who in our lives would make the best officiant for a joke wedding?
37. Where's the weirdest place we've ever kissed?
38. How long do you think we'd last on a survival show?
39. If you planned our anniversary with no rules, where do we wake up?
40. Describe me in the style of a real estate listing.
41. Tell me about a daydream you had about me this week.
42. Name three things you'd pack for a road trip that I'd forget.
43. Remember our worst travel mishap? Rate it out of ten now.
44. Which celebrity couple do you think we're secretly like?
45. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or at a fancy ballroom?
46. Is there a chore you'd happily do forever if I took one off your plate?
47. Pick my order at a coffee shop and see if you get it right.
48. Who texts back faster, and should we be embarrassed?
49. Where in the world do you picture us eating our last dinner of the century?
50. How do you think our grandkids would describe us?
51. If we opened a tiny shop together, what would we sell?
52. Describe the most romantic thing you've seen a stranger do.
53. Tell me the song you'd pick for our first dance if we did it tonight.
54. Name a board game you'd refuse to play with me again.
55. Which animal best matches my morning mood?
56. Would you rather know my whole search history or my whole playlist history?
57. Is there a movie you watch just because I love it?
58. Pick a city we should move to for one wild year.
59. Who fell harder at the start, honestly?
60. How many hours could we spend in a bookstore before one of us cracks?
61. If you could steal one of my talents for a day, which would it be?
62. Describe your ideal snack spread for a night on the couch.
63. Tell me a compliment you think I've never heard before.
64. Remember the first meal we shared? What did we order?
65. Which of our friends would you trust to plan our wedding?
66. Would you rather have a matching tattoo or a matching sweater?
67. Is there a place where you feel like we're most ourselves?
68. Pick three words you hope people use to describe our home.
69. Who's the better driver, and who's the better backseat driver?
70. How would you spend a snow day with me if the power went out?
71. If I were a flavor of ice cream, which one would I be?
72. Describe what you think I'm like when you're not around.
73. Tell me the moment today you thought about me.
74. Name a skill you'd love to learn together this winter.
75. Which trip would you plan if we won a vacation tomorrow?
76. Would you rather read my diary from age twelve or age twenty?
77. Is there a small ritual of ours you'd never want to lose?
78. Pick the song that would play when we walk into a room.
79. Who would win in a pillow fight, and are you sure?
80. How do you think we'd do running a bed and breakfast together?
81. If a genie gave us a free weekend anywhere, where do we land?
82. Describe tonight so far in the words of a sports announcer.
83. Tell me what you'd put in a care package for me.
84. When did you last catch yourself smiling at a memory of us?

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Deeper · 83 questions

Personal, but not heavy.

1. When did you know you wanted this to be serious?
2. What's something you appreciate about me that you rarely say?
3. What do you miss about the early days of us?
4. What's something new you want us to learn together?
5. When do you feel most attracted to me?
6. What's a way I've changed that you like?
7. What do you want more of in our life together this year?
8. What's a version of our future you daydream about?
9. What's something you'd like me to ask you more often?
10. What's a fear you have about getting older together?
11. When did I last surprise you?
12. What do you think I love most about you?
13. What would you want us to spend money on without guilt?
14. What's a hard season we got through, and what helped?
15. What do you want our home to feel like?
16. What's a part of your day you'd love me to be in?
17. What's something you've stopped doing that you'd like back?
18. How do you want us to celebrate the next big thing?
19. What's a way I could show up better for you?
20. What do you hope we're still doing in twenty years?
21. How has the way you say "I love you" changed since we started?
22. Which moment made you feel like we were a real team?
23. Where do you feel most at home when we're together?
24. Who taught you the most about love before you met me?
25. If you could redo one moment of our relationship, which one?
26. Tell me something I did that made you feel safe.
27. Describe the kind of weekend that fills you back up.
28. Is there a dream you've put on hold that I could help with?
29. Would you tell me if you felt we'd drifted, and how?
30. Which of our fights actually made us stronger?
31. How do you like to be comforted when you're stressed?
32. Where do you see us living in five years, honestly?
33. Who do you want us to become as a couple?
34. If you could hear one thing from me every morning, what would it be?
35. Tell me about a time you felt really seen by me.
36. Describe a quality in me you'd want our kids or loved ones to have.
37. Is there something about your past you want me to understand better?
38. When do you feel like I'm most myself?
39. Which small thing I do makes the biggest difference to your day?
40. How do you think we handle stress differently?
41. Where did you learn what a good relationship looks like?
42. Who in your family would you like us to spend more time with?
43. If we had one year off from work, how would we spend it?
44. Tell me a way I could make our mornings better.
45. Describe a moment when you felt proud to be with me.
46. Is there a way I love you that you'd like me to do more?
47. Would you want to celebrate anything we usually skip?
48. Which of your friends understands us best?
49. How do you want us to handle money when things get tight?
50. Where are we still learning each other?
51. Who are you when no one needs anything from you?
52. If I could take one worry off your mind tonight, which would it be?
53. Tell me about a moment you were jealous and never said.
54. Describe how you want our home to feel on a hard day.
55. Is there a tradition from your childhood you want to bring into ours?
56. Should we try something new in our routine this month? What?
57. Which part of your work do you wish I asked about more?
58. How do you like to repair things after we argue?
59. Where do you think we've grown the most as a couple?
60. Who do you turn to when you can't talk to me?
61. If you wrote a letter to us a year from now, what would it say?
62. Tell me what you think our biggest strength is.
63. Describe what feeling appreciated looks like for you.
64. Is there anything I say that stings more than I realize?
65. Would you want me to push you more or protect you more right now?
66. Which goal of yours do you want me cheering for loudest?
67. How did your parents show love, and how do you?
68. Where would you want us to be when we're both retired?
69. Who in my life do you wish you knew better?
70. If we could fix one habit we have as a couple, which one?
71. Tell me a promise you've kept to me that I might not know about.
72. Describe a perfect ordinary day with me, start to finish.
73. Is there a question you've been afraid to ask me?
74. Which season of our relationship has been your favorite?
75. How can I support you better when you're tired?
76. Where do you feel pressure coming from in your life right now?
77. Who were you before we met that you want me to know?
78. If you had to describe our relationship to your younger self, what would you say?
79. Tell me what makes you feel close to me after a long week.
80. Describe something you want to learn about me that you still don't know.
81. Is there a decision coming up that you want to make together?
82. Would you want more adventure or more calm in our life this year?
83. Which of my dreams do you think about most?

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Deepest · 83 questions

The ones that stay with you.

1. What's something you've been carrying alone lately?
2. What do you need from me tonight that you haven't asked for?
3. What's a moment with me you go back to when things are hard?
4. What do you think we've both been avoiding talking about?
5. What's a dream of yours I might not know about anymore?
6. When did you last feel like your life was fully yours?
7. What's the most vulnerable thing you could say to me right now?
8. What do you wish you could tell your younger self about love?
9. What's something you'd want me to do if you couldn't ask?
10. What are you most grateful for about us, honestly?
11. What would you want our last conversation to be about?
12. What's something you're scared to want?
13. How do you want to be remembered by me?
14. What part of you feels unfinished?
15. What would you change about your life if I supported it completely?
16. What's the hardest thing about loving me?
17. What do you need to hear more often than you get to?
18. When did you last cry, and did I know?
19. What's the truest thing about us?
20. If tonight was the only night we had, what would you want to say?
21. How do you want me to hold you when the worst thing happens?
22. Which of your fears feels most real when you think about losing me?
23. Where in your heart are you still guarded with me?
24. Who were you afraid of becoming, and did loving me change that?
25. If I could see one memory that shaped you, which would you show me?
26. Tell me about the moment you felt most alone while we were together.
27. Describe what forgiveness looks like between us.
28. Is there anything you'd need to hear before you could fully trust me?
29. Would you still choose me if you knew everything that's coming?
30. Which old hurt still shows up in how you love me?
31. How do you want our love to feel when we're seventy?
32. Where did you learn to hide your feelings, and do you still do it with me?
33. Who would you want to talk to if something happened to me?
34. If you could take away one of my pains, which would you choose?
35. Tell me something you're ashamed of that you want me to know.
36. Describe the version of us you'd be heartbroken to lose.
37. Is there a way I've let you down that we never talked about?
38. Would you tell me if you stopped being happy?
39. Which of our losses do you still carry?
40. How do you want me to remember you on an ordinary day?
41. Where do you feel you have to be strong for me when you don't want to?
42. Who do you think I am at my core?
43. If love means being known, what part of you is still unknown to me?
44. Tell me what scares you about being truly close to someone.
45. Describe the kind of love you needed as a child.
46. Is there a dream for us that you've been afraid to say out loud?
47. Would you want to know if I was struggling, even if it hurt you?
48. Which moment did you feel like giving up on us, and why didn't you?
49. How can I love the parts of you that you don't like?
50. Where does your worth come from when you feel like you've failed?
51. Who hurt you in a way you still feel when we argue?
52. If our story ended tomorrow, what would you want to have said?
53. Tell me which of your walls you'd like me to take down.
54. Describe what you need when you can't find the words.
55. Is there a promise you want from me that I haven't made?
56. Would you trust me with your biggest regret tonight?
57. Which part of our future do you secretly worry about?
58. How do you know you're really loved, deep down?
59. Where do you go in your head when you pull away from me?
60. Who do you want to be for me in the hardest year of our lives?
61. If I got sick, what would you want me to know first?
62. Tell me the loneliest thought you've had this year.
63. Describe what makes you feel worthy of being loved.
64. Is there a part of your past you'd rewrite for us?
65. Would you let me see you fall apart?
66. Which of my habits makes you feel unloved without my knowing?
67. How has loving me cost you something?
68. Where do you think we'd be if we'd never met?
69. Who do you miss that you haven't told me about?
70. If I could say one sentence to heal an old wound of yours, what should it be?
71. Tell me the thing you're most afraid I'll stop loving about you.
72. Describe the moment you'd most want to relive if you were losing your memory.
73. Is there anything unspoken between us that needs to be said tonight?
74. Would you want me to fight for us even when you push me away?
75. Which version of me did you fall in love with, and is it still here?
76. How do you want us to face getting old?
77. Where do you feel most fragile in our relationship?
78. Who in your life made you believe you were hard to love?
79. If you could whisper one thing to me on my last day, what would it be?
80. Tell me what you want our love to have taught you by the end.
81. Describe how you want to be loved when you can't love yourself.
82. Is there a part of our story you haven't forgiven yet?
83. Would you choose this life again, knowing all of it?

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