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These are the deep questions for couples that move a relationship past logistics. Level one is safe on any night. Level three is the reason people put the deck down and talk for an hour.

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Light · 20 deep questions for couples

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

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What's something small I do that you'd miss if I stopped?

Light · 01
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What was your first honest impression of me?

Light · 02
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Which version of me is your favourite — morning, night, or somewhere in between?

Light · 03
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What's a meal that instantly reminds you of us?

Light · 04
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If we had a completely free Saturday, what would your perfect one look like?

Light · 05
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What song would you put on if you wanted to make me smile?

Light · 06
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What's the funniest fight we've ever had?

Light · 07
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Which of my habits did you find annoying at first and now find endearing?

Light · 08
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What's a place we've been that you'd go back to tomorrow?

Light · 09
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What do I do that makes you feel taken care of?

Light · 10
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If you had to describe our relationship as a movie genre, what would it be?

Light · 11
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What's something you'd love us to do more of?

Light · 12
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What's a compliment I gave you that you still think about?

Light · 13
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What's your favourite ordinary night with me?

Light · 14
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What did you think our life would look like by now?

Light · 15
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What's a tiny tradition we've accidentally built?

Light · 16
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Which of us would survive longer without the other's help, honestly?

Light · 17
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What's something I'm better at than you'll admit?

Light · 18
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If we swapped lives for a day, what would surprise you most?

Light · 19
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What smell reminds you of me?

Light · 20

Deeper · 20 deep questions for couples

Personal, but not heavy.

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When did you last feel truly proud of me?

Deeper · 01
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What's something you needed from me recently and didn't ask for?

Deeper · 02
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When do you feel most distant from me?

Deeper · 03
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What's a fear about us that you've never said out loud?

Deeper · 04
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How do you know when I'm not okay, even if I say I am?

Deeper · 05
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What's something you've forgiven me for without telling me?

Deeper · 06
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Which of your parents' habits do you see in yourself with me?

Deeper · 07
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What do you think I misunderstand about you?

Deeper · 08
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When was the moment you knew this was serious?

Deeper · 09
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What's a part of yourself you show me that no one else gets?

Deeper · 10
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What's something you've changed about yourself because of me — good or bad?

Deeper · 11
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When do you feel the most loved by me?

Deeper · 12
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What's a conversation we keep having without resolving?

Deeper · 13
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What do you wish I'd ask you about more often?

Deeper · 14
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What's something you're carrying right now that you've kept light on purpose?

Deeper · 15
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How has your idea of love changed since we met?

Deeper · 16
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What's a moment with me you replay in your head?

Deeper · 17
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What would you want me to say to you on your worst day?

Deeper · 18
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Is there something you've been waiting for me to notice?

Deeper · 19
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What do you think we're avoiding?

Deeper · 20

Deepest · 20 deep questions for couples

The ones that stay with you.

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What's the loneliest you've ever felt inside this relationship?

Deepest · 01
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If I disappeared tomorrow, what would you regret not saying?

Deepest · 02
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What's a version of your life you gave up to be here?

Deepest · 03
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Do you think I know the worst of you? Do you want me to?

Deepest · 04
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What's something about me you've made peace with rather than accepted?

Deepest · 05
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When have you doubted us, and what pulled you back?

Deepest · 06
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What do you need from me that you're afraid is too much to ask?

Deepest · 07
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What's the truest thing you've never told anyone, including me?

Deepest · 08
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How do you want to be loved when you're old and difficult?

Deepest · 09
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What would break us, if anything?

Deepest · 10
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What's a wound you had before me that I've accidentally reopened?

Deepest · 11
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Do you feel like you're becoming who you wanted to be?

Deepest · 12
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What's something you've grieved quietly this year?

Deepest · 13
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If we only had one more year together, what would we change tomorrow?

Deepest · 14
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What do you think I'm most afraid of?

Deepest · 15
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What's the hardest truth you'd want me to hear kindly?

Deepest · 16
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Where do you feel unseen — by me, or by everyone?

Deepest · 17
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What promise do you make to yourself that you keep breaking?

Deepest · 18
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What do you hope people say about us?

Deepest · 19
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What's the one thing you'd want me to remember about you?

Deepest · 20

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