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Long Distance Relationship Questions — Free Video Call Cards Online

Long distance runs out of material fast — you both already said how the day went. These long distance relationship questions give the call somewhere to go, whether you have five minutes or two hours.

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Light · 20 long distance questions

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

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What's something in your room right now that I've never seen?

Light · 01
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What did you eat today, and was it a decision or a surrender?

Light · 02
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What's the smallest thing that reminded you of me this week?

Light · 03
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What would we be doing right now if I was there?

Light · 04
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What's a new place near you I should see when I visit?

Light · 05
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What's the first thing you want to do when we're together?

Light · 06
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Describe your day as a film title.

Light · 07
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What song have you had on repeat?

Light · 08
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What's something funny that happened that I'd have laughed at?

Light · 09
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What's the weather doing, and what does that make you want to do?

Light · 10
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What's a habit you've picked up since we've been apart?

Light · 11
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Who have you spent the most time with this week?

Light · 12
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What's your favourite thing about our calls?

Light · 13
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What would you want in a care package from me?

Light · 14
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What's a photo you almost sent me but didn't?

Light · 15
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What's the best part of your routine right now?

Light · 16
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What do you do when you miss me?

Light · 17
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What's something you want to show me on camera right now?

Light · 18
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What's a plan you've been quietly making for us?

Light · 19
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How many days until we see each other, without checking?

Light · 20

Deeper · 20 long distance questions

Personal, but not heavy.

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What's been the hardest part of this week that you downplayed?

Deeper · 01
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What do you need from these calls that you're not getting?

Deeper · 02
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When do you feel most far away from me?

Deeper · 03
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What are you worried about that you haven't mentioned?

Deeper · 04
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What's changed about you that I might not have noticed over video?

Deeper · 05
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What do you wish I asked you more?

Deeper · 06
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How do you feel about our timeline, honestly?

Deeper · 07
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What's something you're proud of that I missed?

Deeper · 08
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What do you do on the bad days when I can't be there?

Deeper · 09
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What's a friendship or part of your life I don't know well enough?

Deeper · 10
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When did you last feel really connected to me?

Deeper · 11
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What's the hardest thing about explaining us to other people?

Deeper · 12
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What would make the distance easier?

Deeper · 13
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What are you afraid this is doing to us?

Deeper · 14
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What do you want our first week together to actually feel like?

Deeper · 15
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What's something you've stopped telling me because it's easier?

Deeper · 16
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What does trust look like from where you're sitting?

Deeper · 17
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What have you learned about yourself being apart?

Deeper · 18
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What's a compromise you're not sure you can keep making?

Deeper · 19
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What do you need me to promise?

Deeper · 20

Deepest · 20 long distance questions

The ones that stay with you.

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Do you still believe we'll close the distance? Truthfully.

Deepest · 01
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What would you give up to be in the same city?

Deepest · 02
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What's the loneliest night you've had since we've been apart?

Deepest · 03
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What do you think this is costing you?

Deepest · 04
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Have you ever thought about ending it? What stopped you?

Deepest · 05
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What do you need me to understand about your life here that I never will fully?

Deepest · 06
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What are you most afraid I'll become without you?

Deepest · 07
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What's a version of your future that doesn't have me in it, and how does it feel?

Deepest · 08
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What have you been carrying alone because I couldn't hold it from here?

Deepest · 09
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What do you resent about how this is set up?

Deepest · 10
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When did you last feel like giving up on us?

Deepest · 11
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What would make you feel truly chosen, from this far away?

Deepest · 12
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What's the hardest thing you've had to do without me there?

Deepest · 13
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What do you need to hear right now, exactly?

Deepest · 14
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What would you say if you knew this call was the last one?

Deepest · 15
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What part of yourself have you had to protect?

Deepest · 16
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What do you hope I'm doing when I'm not on the phone with you?

Deepest · 17
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What would you want our life to look like if distance stopped existing tomorrow?

Deepest · 18
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What's the truest reason you're still here?

Deepest · 19
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When it's over — the distance, not us — what do you want to remember about this?

Deepest · 20

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