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Light · 84 questions

Easy openers. Safe for anyone.

1. What's something in your room right now that I've never seen?
2. What did you eat today, and was it a decision or a surrender?
3. What's the smallest thing that reminded you of me this week?
4. What would we be doing right now if I was there?
5. What's a new place near you I should see when I visit?
6. What's the first thing you want to do when we're together?
7. Describe your day as a film title.
8. What song have you had on repeat?
9. What's something funny that happened that I'd have laughed at?
10. What's the weather doing, and what does that make you want to do?
11. What's a habit you've picked up since we've been apart?
12. Who have you spent the most time with this week?
13. What's your favorite thing about our calls?
14. What would you want in a care package from me?
15. What's a photo you almost sent me but didn't?
16. What's the best part of your routine right now?
17. What do you do when you miss me?
18. What's something you want to show me on camera right now?
19. What's a plan you've been quietly making for us?
20. How many days until we see each other, without checking?
21. If you could teleport here for one hour tonight, where would we go first?
22. What's the view from your window right now, in three words?
23. Which snack have you been living on this week?
24. What's the weirdest thing a coworker or classmate said to you lately?
25. If we had a joint playlist for this month, what song would you add first?
26. What time is it where you are, and what should you be doing instead of talking to me?
27. Which of my texts made you laugh out loud in public?
28. What show should we start watching together at the same time?
29. If you mailed me a smell, what would it be?
30. How would you rate your outfit today on a scale of pajamas to wedding guest?
31. What's the best thing you cooked since we last saw each other?
32. Which neighbor or stranger near you deserves their own sitcom?
33. What's a local food you want me to try the minute I land?
34. Where would you hide a surprise note for me in your place?
35. What emoji best sums up your mood today?
36. If your pillow could talk, what would it say about how you sleep without me?
37. What's the most ridiculous thing you've bought online recently?
38. Describe your commute like a nature documentary narrator.
39. Which of our inside jokes still makes you smile randomly?
40. What would our video call look like if it were a cooking show?
41. What's the first meal we should eat together next visit?
42. Who in your life asks about me the most?
43. What's a sound in your home I'd notice right away?
44. If you could send me one hug-shaped object, what would it be?
45. What's a tiny win from today that deserves a victory dance?
46. Which game should we play online this weekend?
47. What's the strangest dream you've had about me?
48. What would you name our future dog, cat, or houseplant?
49. What's one thing on your desk that tells me how your week is going?
50. If we could swap cities for a day, what would you do in mine?
51. What's your go-to outfit for our video dates?
52. Which movie should we watch in sync and yell at together?
53. What's your favorite photo of us, and why that one?
54. What's the last thing that made you say, I wish you were here?
55. What does your perfect lazy morning together look like?
56. Which airport or train station snack is officially ours?
57. If you wrote me a postcard right now, what would the front picture be?
58. What's a new word or phrase you picked up lately?
59. What's something you're looking forward to this weekend?
60. Which song would play in the movie scene where we finally reunite?
61. What's the cutest thing you've seen a stranger do this week?
62. What's the most overrated thing about your city?
63. What's a hobby we could both try from far away?
64. How do you picture me at this exact second?
65. What's one thing you'd pack for me if you were doing my suitcase?
66. If our relationship had a mascot, what would it be?
67. What's the funniest autocorrect fail you've sent me?
68. Which café near you would be our spot?
69. What's the best voice message I've ever left you?
70. What should our countdown celebration look like on the last day apart?
71. What little thing did you do today that I would tease you about?
72. Which season is best for visiting you, and why?
73. What's a recipe we should both cook tonight on camera?
74. If you could borrow one thing from my closet, what would it be?
75. What would our couple name be if we were famous?
76. What's a sticker, meme, or GIF that's basically us?
77. Which time zone joke never gets old for you?
78. What's a place in my city you secretly want to explore?
79. What's the silliest reason you've been late for one of our calls?
80. What's something you saw today that looked exactly like my kind of thing?
81. If we had a secret handshake over video, how would it go?
82. What's your best tip for falling asleep while on the phone together?
83. Which of your friends would I get along with best?
84. What's a mini adventure you'd plan for my next visit?

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Deeper · 83 questions

Personal, but not heavy.

1. What's been the hardest part of this week that you downplayed?
2. What do you need from these calls that you're not getting?
3. When do you feel most far away from me?
4. What are you worried about that you haven't mentioned?
5. What's changed about you that I might not have noticed over video?
6. What do you wish I asked you more?
7. How do you feel about our timeline, honestly?
8. What's something you're proud of that I missed?
9. What do you do on the bad days when I can't be there?
10. What's a friendship or part of your life I don't know well enough?
11. When did you last feel really connected to me?
12. What's the hardest thing about explaining us to other people?
13. What would make the distance easier?
14. What are you afraid this is doing to us?
15. What do you want our first week together to actually feel like?
16. What's something you've stopped telling me because it's easier?
17. What does trust look like from where you're sitting?
18. What have you learned about yourself being apart?
19. What's a compromise you're not sure you can keep making?
20. What do you need me to promise?
21. What part of your day do you most wish I could see in person?
22. When a call gets cut short, how does that actually feel for you?
23. What's something I do over text that you read the wrong way at first?
24. What makes you feel most loved when we're apart?
25. When you have big news, who do you tell before me, and does that matter?
26. How do you feel when I'm out with friends and slow to reply?
27. What's a small ritual we could add to feel closer?
28. What do you miss most about me that isn't physical?
29. How has your idea of our future changed since we started this?
30. What's one thing you want me to understand about your schedule?
31. When do you feel jealous, even a little?
32. What's a memory from our last visit you replay the most?
33. Do you ever feel like you're living two separate lives?
34. What's a conversation you'd rather have face to face?
35. How do you know when I'm upset, even through a screen?
36. What do you do the night after I leave?
37. What's hard to explain about your life to me?
38. Which goodbye at the airport or station stuck with you the most?
39. What's a way I could support you better from here?
40. How do you handle the times our calls feel flat?
41. What's something your friends or family said about us that stuck with you?
42. Do you think the distance has made us better at talking?
43. What's one thing you want us to stop arguing about over text?
44. What's the moment you knew this was worth the distance?
45. How do you feel on holidays we spend apart?
46. What's a part of your city you want to share with me that isn't touristy?
47. What worries you about the first few weeks of living close?
48. How do you picture a normal Tuesday when we're finally together?
49. What's one thing about me you learned only because we were apart?
50. How much alone time will you still need when we close the gap?
51. What's a promise you've kept that I might not know about?
52. How do you feel when I cancel or move a call?
53. What's a money worry about visits we haven't talked about?
54. Do we split the travel fairly, in your eyes?
55. What part of your life do you want me to be more curious about?
56. What makes you feel secure when you can't see me?
57. What's a text you wrote and deleted?
58. When do you feel most like a team, even from far away?
59. What's something you want to try together that isn't just talking?
60. Who in your life doesn't quite believe in us, and how does that land?
61. What's a habit of mine you're dreading or looking forward to living with?
62. How do you want us to handle a fight when one of us has to hang up?
63. What's the best surprise I could send you without asking first?
64. What do you tell people when they ask why we don't just move?
65. How are you really sleeping lately?
66. What would you want to change about how often we talk?
67. What's the biggest thing you've had to decide alone this year?
68. When did you last feel proud of how we handled something?
69. What does home mean to you right now?
70. What's a fear about us you think is silly but still have?
71. How do you want me to show up on your hardest days?
72. What's the best thing about having your own space right now?
73. What part of this do you think we're getting right?
74. What do you want to celebrate the next time we're together?
75. What's something you've been too tired to tell me?
76. How has missing me changed the way you spend weekends?
77. When you picture moving, what do you feel first: excitement or dread?
78. What's something you want me to notice more?
79. Which of our visits felt too short, and why?
80. What's a part of your family life you want me in?
81. How do you keep going when the next visit feels far off?
82. What's one plan for us you want to write down tonight?
83. What does a good week between us look like to you?

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Deepest · 83 questions

The ones that stay with you.

1. Do you still believe we'll close the distance? Truthfully.
2. What would you give up to be in the same city?
3. What's the loneliest night you've had since we've been apart?
4. What do you think this is costing you?
5. Have you ever thought about ending it? What stopped you?
6. What do you need me to understand about your life here that I never will fully?
7. What are you most afraid I'll become without you?
8. What's a version of your future that doesn't have me in it, and how does it feel?
9. What have you been carrying alone because I couldn't hold it from here?
10. What do you resent about how this is set up?
11. When did you last feel like giving up on us?
12. What would make you feel truly chosen, from this far away?
13. What's the hardest thing you've had to do without me there?
14. What do you need to hear right now, exactly?
15. What would you say if you knew this call was the last one?
16. What part of yourself have you had to protect?
17. What do you hope I'm doing when I'm not on the phone with you?
18. What would you want our life to look like if distance stopped existing tomorrow?
19. What's the truest reason you're still here?
20. When it's over — the distance, not us — what do you want to remember about this?
21. What would you regret most if we let the distance win?
22. Who would you have to leave behind to be with me, and can you do that?
23. What's a moment you felt invisible to me?
24. What do you need to hear from me when you start doubting us?
25. How would you feel if the plan to close the distance got pushed back a year?
26. What's something about your past that makes this harder than it looks?
27. When have you felt alone even while we were on the phone?
28. What would you want me to do if you ever felt like giving up?
29. What are you most afraid of losing if you move for me?
30. What's the most honest thing you've never said on a call?
31. What do you think I'd sacrifice for us, and is it enough?
32. How do you picture growing old with someone you once only saw on a screen?
33. What part of you only shows up when we're in the same room?
34. What would hurt more: a slow drift or a clean break?
35. What does commitment mean when nobody is watching?
36. When did you last cry about us, and why?
37. What part of your future are you scared to share with me?
38. If one of us had to give up a dream so we could be together, whose should it be?
39. What makes you believe I'm worth the wait?
40. What's a doubt you've been carrying since the beginning?
41. How would you want to be told if my feelings ever changed?
42. What would make you feel like we built something real, not just survived?
43. What have you forgiven me for that I never knew about?
44. What do you think the distance has taken from you?
45. What has the distance given you that you'd want to keep?
46. What do you fear people will say if this doesn't work?
47. How much of your happiness is waiting on the day we close the gap?
48. What's a part of you that still feels guarded with me?
49. When you imagine our reunion for good, what are you most nervous about?
50. What would you want me to know if something happened and I couldn't reach you?
51. What do you worry I'll find out about you once we live together?
52. How do you want us to handle it if one of us needs to move again someday?
53. What would it take for you to trust me completely from far away?
54. What's something you've gone without so we could keep going?
55. Who were you before me, and do you miss that person?
56. What would you want from me if you lost someone you love while I was far away?
57. What part of our story do you want to tell our friends years from now?
58. What does being chosen by me feel like on your worst day?
59. When do you feel like the only one trying?
60. What promise are you most scared to break?
61. If you could say one thing to the version of me you met first, what would it be?
62. What would make you walk away, even if you still loved me?
63. What part of your heart have you been saving for when we're together?
64. How has loving me from far away changed how you love anyone?
65. What's the most selfless thing you've done for us that I never saw?
66. What do you need to let go of before we can live in the same place?
67. What part of this relationship feels most fragile to you?
68. How will you know you're ready to move, not just willing?
69. What would you want written on the ticket for our last trip apart?
70. What does it feel like to love someone you can't touch?
71. What's the story you tell yourself when I'm quiet for too long?
72. If we'd met in the same city, do you think we'd be as strong?
73. What do you secretly hope I'll give up so we can be together?
74. How do you want to be comforted when I'm not there to hold you?
75. What would you grieve about this chapter once it's over?
76. What are you afraid to ask for because you know it costs me something?
77. What's the bravest thing you've done for this relationship?
78. When do you feel like you're loving a memory instead of me?
79. What part of our future do you think about when you can't sleep?
80. What would you want us to promise the day the distance ends?
81. What makes staying worth it when it would be easier to leave?
82. How do you want me to remember this time if we don't make it?
83. What do you want me to know about how much you've changed for us?

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