Deep Question Generator
No small talk here. These are the questions from the deepest level of every deck, the ones people put the phone down for.
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How to use it
- Pick a quiet moment. Deep questions work best without distractions and without a clock running.
- Answer the same question yourself before you ask it. It sets the tone and makes it feel fair.
- Skip anything that does not feel right today. You can always come back to it.
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Frequently asked questions
What counts as a deep question?
A deep question asks about values, memories, fears or hopes rather than facts. It usually has no quick answer and often leads to a story the other person has not told many people.
Is it okay to ask deep questions early in a relationship?
Yes, as long as both people are comfortable. Start with the gentler ones and let the other person set the pace. Openness tends to be returned when it is offered first.
Can I use it for journaling?
Absolutely. Many readers use the deep generator as a daily prompt and write a page in response. The self-reflection decks on this site are built for exactly that.
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